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We're a Couple That Broke Up For Quite SomeTime .
I Asked For A Break Up Due To Some Issue On Work And Age .
But .. I Still Feel Confuse ..
We're Still Young . Haven Even Completed Secondary Studies .
Im Not Sure What To Do Right Now As I Always Get Distracted ..
I Asked For A Break Up As I Didnt Want Her To Suffer .
As Our Relationship Has More Sadness Then Happiness .
Just Wanted To End It .. As Our Love Isnt That Strong .
But Somehow I Felt I Still Cant Get Over It ... Hais .
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Originally posted by Lma0:
We're a Couple That Broke Up For Quite SomeTime .
I Asked For A Break Up Due To Some Issue On Work And Age .
But .. I Still Feel Confuse ..
We're Still Young . Haven Even Completed Secondary Studies .
Im Not Sure What To Do Right Now As I Always Get Distracted ..
I Asked For A Break Up As I Didnt Want Her To Suffer .
As Our Relationship Has More Sadness Then Happiness .
Just Wanted To End It .. As Our Love Isnt That Strong .
But Somehow I Felt I Still Cant Get Over It ... Hais .
Hi Lma0,
You still have feelings for her, but you believe that the relationship will not work out, so you decided to end it here. There is no definite right or wrong to such decisions, but it is understandable why you are unable to get over it.
This melancholy which you are feeling now will not disappear any time soon, but the most important thing for you right now is to learn how to move on. You can try shifting your focus to other things in your life, such as your family, your studies, and your friends.
They will be pillars of support for you, and will help to reduce the sadness in your heart bit by bit.
Cheers.
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Originally posted by Lma0:
We're a Couple That Broke Up For Quite SomeTime .
I Asked For A Break Up Due To Some Issue On Work And Age .
But .. I Still Feel Confuse ..
We're Still Young . Haven Even Completed Secondary Studies .
Im Not Sure What To Do Right Now As I Always Get Distracted ..
I Asked For A Break Up As I Didnt Want Her To Suffer .
As Our Relationship Has More Sadness Then Happiness .
Just Wanted To End It .. As Our Love Isnt That Strong .
But Somehow I Felt I Still Cant Get Over It ... Hais .
Instead of requesting for a break-up because you didn't want her to suffer, why don't you request to STAY and endure any suffering together with her?Is it because it is THE EASIEST solution?
How can you guarantee your love to your future girlfriend(s) if all you did were to RUN AWAY whenever the situation isn't looking healthy?
True love and noble decisions are supposed to be self-less, not like the selfish decisions which you had made to take care of your own fragile world.
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Originally posted by Lma0:
Its Because My Love Towards Her Had Fade Off ..
I Dont Wanna Give Her A Fake Love Or What ..
Hi Lma0,
Although it is not the right time now for you to have another half, but have you considered what caused your feelings for her to fade away?
If you are unable to answer this question now, in the future, your next relationship(s) may just meet the same end.
Cheers.
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Hey TrueHeart ,
I Could Answer That . Its Because I'm Working . Its Not An Excuse .
As Last Time We Would Meet Almost Everyday After School , Went Out Together .
Just That My Parents Asked Me To Get A Job .. You Know Drifting Apart ?
Besides She Had No Jobs , Everyday At Home . Even If She Goes Out With Her Friends . Can't Always Depend On Parents Money Right ?
SomeHow She Didn't Want To Find A Job And I Didn't Know Why .
And you Sounds Like All My RelationShip Would Fail . Hais ..
Just Didnt Want To Let Her Feel Lonely ..
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Originally posted by Lma0:
Hey TrueHeart ,
I Could Answer That . Its Because I'm Working . Its Not An Excuse .
As Last Time We Would Meet Almost Everyday After School , Went Out Together .
Just That My Parents Asked Me To Get A Job .. You Know Drifting Apart ?
Besides She Had No Jobs , Everyday At Home . Even If She Goes Out With Her Friends . Can't Always Depend On Parents Money Right ?
SomeHow She Didn't Want To Find A Job And I Didn't Know Why .
And you Sounds Like All My RelationShip Would Fail . Hais ..
Just Didnt Want To Let Her Feel Lonely ..
Hi Lma0,
I sincerely apologise if I give you the wrong idea. Since you have come to this conclusion, then as I have said before, it is time for you to slowly move on.
It is impossible to let go of everything in an instant, so do let time heal your wounds bit by bit.
Cheers.
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